TextSex March 11, 2010

I was text messaging a “friend” last night when all of a sudden our xoxs turned slightly more erotic than a cute sign off.  From c u soon to cum over NOW happened in only a few short strokes – of the keypad.  A few deft manoeuvers with my thumb over my 1.5″ back-lit alpha-numeric [...]

Flirt March 4, 2010

I have several guy friends. As a 21st century worldly, urban and urbane woman in her 30′s, I make no excuse for this  (fathers and boyfriends, however, sometimes need convincing). I’ve never slept with any of my guy friends because quite simply that would take us beyond the friendship post and into another playing field [...]

Savage February 24, 2010

Spilling over a little Savage on Sunday morning has become a tradition of mine in the last couple of years. There’s something special about swallowing down tea and toast while perusing Dan’s sage advice on how to deal with weird sexual fetishes, prolongued erections, or guys that just don’t get anal sex. And reading the [...]

PGAD February 19, 2010

This could be the sexual fetishist’s dream – but apparently it’s a disorder. I suppose if I had to choose a disorder (not that being anxious and neurotic don’t already count) PGAD would certainly rank among my top 3. So, Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder it is! Imagine being continually aroused with no other form of [...]

Heels February 12, 2010

They make me feel strong, in control and very, very sexy. They are demure and domineering; subtle and slinky; haute and hot. They make me taller, they make my boobs thrust forward and they make my ass stick out. I love the way they echo authoritatively down the hall. They make people look up and [...]

When February 4, 2010

When is enough is enough? When do you know when to end a relationship?  When do you tell him or her? All difficult questions to ask yourself but more difficult to answer truthfully. I tend to stay in relationships until the bloody, bitter end. This, I have realized over the last few duds, is definitely [...]

Spit January 28, 2010

Once upon a time there was a great debate in my life: to spit or to swallow. Now, older, wiser and with a more finely developed gag reflex, the debate is no longer – SPIT it is ! I don’t really know how I ever swallowed the veritable nectar of life that is not water. [...]

Jello January 20, 2010

Forget the gold, go for the gelatin. Some things in life are hard to do, hard to swallow, hard to take. But some things, sometimes are so sweet and easy it’s like eating Jello.  This is how I’ve come to think about my various assortment of  lovers and relationships, past and present. Some guys are [...]

Size January 19, 2010

In the past, I’ve waffled on this subject: Does size really matter? Is bigger better? Is it the girth or the length that’s more important? I think I’ve finally reached a pointed decision thanks to the help several different lovers to remain unnamed (I’m easy but not a blabbermouth) and a wise therapist (ok, yes [...]

PersuAsian January 6, 2010

Asian. Caucasian. Persuasion. Some call it yellow fever, some refer to their yellow wings. Others simply don’t deny the fact that they are AsiaPhiles. I first encountered such AsiaLust while living in Korea. It seemed that for every set of 10 expats there were at least 2 who would boldly state that they would never, [...]